Welcome to Syn's Online Presence

Syn is a lifestyle club located in Tulsa, OK, and is considered the hottest club in the area.  We average 100-200 people per party, and the parties are always “SYNful”   Doors open at 8 party starts at 9 and early arrival is recommended due to limited space in parking and seating.

For Location Details

Click here for location details.  Syn is open ONLY on the nights listed below.

New To The Lifestyle

New to Syn or the swinging  lifestyle in general? Check out the Virgins of Syn page. Also check out our page on our playroom NR2K for details and common etiquette questions.

Table Reservations

We now do table reservations.  Click the Common Questions link for details.

Full Bar

SYN parties are held in a full service bar and are NOT BYOL.  Must be 21 to enter.
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July 20th: Cum One Cum All
By request our Cum One, Cum All event returns this Saturday night. If you’re a couple or single lady that enjoys single males, has a gangbang or train fantasy this is the event for you.

PLEASE NOTE: This set up is for this event only! Next Saturday night we resume normal rules of operation.

Many ladies have a fantasy of laying on a bed and being taken over and over again. This is a common fantasy and one we hope to help you fulfill. THIS SATURDAY ONLY we are changing the rules for our play room NR2K. The king bed will be designated the ‘Cum One, Cum All” bed. What this means is ladies if you are on this bed you are ready for action and little communication is needed. Normally in the playroom males must be asked to be invited. On THIS BED ONLY “yes” is not required. Of course you can still decline any gentleman you want no matter what bed you are on. However on the king bed this night No must be respected, but yes is not required. Ladies it’s your chance to live out a fantasy in a safe clean environment. It is suggested you have a spotter with you to help look out for your needs.

Upon request we can open up additional beds if needed for the theme. Including the “Bondage Bed” if you would like to be tied down and\or blindfolded for the experience.

To help facilitate your needs unescorted single males will be allowed in NR2K for the night. Not your thing? No worries as always there will be plenty of sexy Synners ready to party. You will not be accosted by a lot of single males unless that is what you want.

RULES FOR THE MEN: Guys even though the lady is acting out a fantasy she is still a lady. Please treat her as such. Remember ladies love a gentleman.
If the lady is on the king bed you do not have to ask to be invited. However you still have to respect their rules. If her partner says no or asks for protection please respect their wishes.
If you are told no don’t take it personally or cause a scene. You will get a chance again soon.
Please do not ask to join anyone not on the king bed. Even if you are polite it can be a real downer if the other couples have to keep saying no. Not all couples there will be into single men. If you are invited that’s great! However please don’t ask if they are interested they will let you know.
Failure to be respectful will get your removed from the event. There will be no refunds for removal.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not required.

Cost is the usual price of 20.00 a couple, 40.00 solo studs and unescorted ladies are always FREE.

For location details and more check out the links above.

July 27th: Sex & Candy
Want some candy little girl?

Our Summer of Syn continues with a party that combines two of our favorite things. Sex and Candy. There will be plenty of sweets of both varieties provided and feel free to bring your own. As we all know ladies always look better with something in their mouth.

Cost is the usually price of 20.00 a couple, 40.00 solo studs and unescorted ladies are always FREE.

For location details and more check out the links above.

August 3rd: Sizzle Me!
We are in the middle of our Summer of SYN with one of our hottest themes. We have hosted Sizzle Me parties for years and they are always one of our most fun events.

Every couple\single through the door will get a selection of “Syn Sizzles.” These can be given away by being placed anywhere on the receivers body. At 11:30 we will count the top earners up and the top 3 winners will receive a prize. 1st place 1 month free entry AND a 25.00 bar tab, 2nd 10.00 bar tab & free entry to any Syn event, 3rd place free entry to any Syn event.

Receivers you must show us where all the Sizzles are placed in order for us to count!

Other Synners will not be the only ones with the Syn Sizzles. Syn Staff and well as Secrets Staff will also have some to give away.

Cost is still the same. 20.00 per couple, 40.00 Single Studs and unescorted ladies are FREE! For details on location, hotels and more check out the links above.

August 10th: Shirt & Panties
By request Syn is having a Shirt & Panties night. We are going to run this much like we do the topless after 10 events.

After 10PM all FEMALE Synners dressed in shirt and panties will receive tickets for a drawing at midnight. We will be giving away different things and you can win more than once.

This will not be a one time thing. We will be going around giving out tickets from 10-12. Longer you stay dressed in theme the more chances you have to win!

Thong Bonus! FEMALE Synners wearing a thong will get a bonus ticket! To qualify must be in a thong\cheeky type of panty and they must be showing. Bonus will not count if you have to lift shirt to see the thong.

Contest is open to female Synners only and yes that’s discrimination. Really though we all win.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not required.

Cost is the usual price of 20.00 a couple, 40.00 solo studs and unescorted ladies are always FREE.

For location details and more check out the links above.

August 17th: Thick (Summer Edition)
Ladies of all sizes are sexy. However there is something about a thick girl. Ladies this is the night to show what you got no matter how much there is.

It’s a night of Thick Chicks and Big Dicks. This is the summer edition. So excuse to wear even less.

Gentlemen to help the ladies out single males will be allowed unescorted into NR2K for this event.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not required. This was a sold out event last time we ran it.

Normal door charge applies 20.00 per couple, 40.00 single males and unescorted ladies are free. For details on location, hotel and more check out the links above.

August 24th: Bare 2019
Summer is coming to an end and as usual we are going out with a splash! It’s our Summer of Syn climax party BARE!

It’s our annual wet t-shirt contest. Seems like every year this contest gets better and better. This year we are returning to our original format and making this a ladies only event.

For time contraints we are limiting the contestants to 6 ladies. Everyone that wants to enter will be entered into a drawing and 6 numbers will be pulled for the contest. Winner will be determine by crowd response and by judges.

Want to be a judge? This year we will be drawing for judges again. If you like to judge let the door girl enter you into the drawing. We get wet at 1130PM.

This is one of the biggest parties of the summer and calls for bigger prizes. 1st place 3 Months of free Syn entry, 2nd place 1 Month of free SYN entry and 3rd place will be one free entry.

Single ladies will have prizes converted to a equivalent bar tab.

Table reservation are available however must be pre-paid before this event. Tables in the “splash zone” will be first come first serve reservation basis.

Usual cover charge applies only 20.00 per couple, 40.00 single males and single ladies are FREE! As always cover charge gets you access to the main party area as well as Secret Gentleman’s Club and Oklahoma’s most posh Naughty Room NR2K.

For details on location, hotels and more check out the links above.

August 31st: Synful Singles
Our Synful Singles parties have been a big hit and we are bringing one back for this weekend.


This party only single males will be allowed into NR2K unescorted. However proper decorum is still expected.

Our parties have always been and always will be couples focused. This is for the couples that are looking for a single male or female to play with.

Cost is the normal 20.00 a couple, 40.00 for single studs and unescorted ladies are FREE! As always the entry fee gets you into main bar area as well as the gentleman’s club and our posh play room NR2K. Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Early arrival is recommended due to limited space in seating and parking. All Syn parties are hosted in a full bar and are not BYOL.

For details on location, hotel arrangements and more check out the links above.

September 7th: Nerds & Jocks
Fall is here! That means it’s time for school, sports and our annual Nerds & Jocks party. Come represent your side in this clash of brains vs brawn that is as old as time itself.

Cost is the normal 20.00 a couple, 40.00 for single studs and unescorted ladies are FREE! As always the entry fee gets you into main bar area as well as the gentleman’s club and our posh play room NR2K. Doors open at 8 party starts at 9. Early arrival is recommended due to limited space in seating and parking. All Syn parties are hosted in a full bar and are not BYOL.

For details on location, hotel arrangements and more check out the links above.

September 14th: Topless After 10
Synners favorite game returns this Saturday night. Topless after 10 is a fun game that can help you win lots of prizes for simply “hanging” out.

After 10PM Syn staff members will be going around and giving out tickets to all the topless Synners. This won’t be a one time thing. We will keep making trips around the club all the way till 12. The longer you stay bare breasted the more tickets you win!At 12am we will do a drawing for multiple prizes and you can win more than once!

This contest is open to both men and women. Ladies will receive 2 tickets at a time and men 1.If you like to keep the nips covered staff members will have tape to help facilitate that for you.

Table reservations are available. If having a seat is important to you a reservation is suggested but not required.Cost is the usual price of 20.00 a couple, 40.00 solo studs and unescorted ladies are always FREE.For location details and more check out the links above.

September 21st: Men's Shirt No Skirt
One of our all-time favorite themes we love it so much we run it twice a year.

For years we have hosted this party and it’s always a lot of fun and super sexy. As others started running similar themes we had to make a Syn Style version to Men’s Shirt and NO Skirts.

Ladies come out wearing your favorite men’s shirt….and not much else. Guys keep up and come looking nice.

Table reservations are not required but available.

Cost is only 20.00 a couple and 40.00 for single males with unescorted ladies free. For details on location, hotel accommodations and more check out the links above.

Any questions feel free to contact us, and we look forward to seeing you all again.

LEGAL DISCLAIMER

While Syn host it’s meet & greets in a public bar we are in no way affiliated with Next Door Bar Grill nor Secrets Gentlemen’s Club.  Bar employees are not allowed inside private lounge area.  Access to private lounge area is by invite only and not open to the public.

Thank you!!